Well friends, I am officially done University! Last night I arrived home to my parents house in Canada for the holidays – so happy to be here.
Although I still have an internship in Bangkok come January, the end of school marks a new beginning for myself, as well as A Piece of Elise. Although I am unsure as to what that means, you can expect more frequent posts from me…whether you like it or not.
All in all, I am currently working on processing my thoughts in regards the end of this period which has consumed the last 4 years of my life. Not only did I complete a University degree, but I did so entirely alone and in a totally foreign country. I am still trying to come to terms with the implications of this statement, but I know I have learned and experienced things, as well as grown in ways that I never really imagined. I’ll get back to you when I’ve figure it out a bit, it will probably take years for me to understand entirely. I probably won’t realize just how much I’ve changed until I try to fully function in a western society, in which I will most likely come to realize that I’m some kind of blonde asian weirdo.
In doing what I’ve done, I have not lived the traditional expat life. Instead, I have been immersed in a part of Thai society that is typically reserved for teaching the Thai people to be the way they are, at one of the most influential and critical points in life: young adulthood. By going through an entire academic system in this way, my perception, thoughts and values have likely changed forever. When I find a way to quantify this better, I hope to make some sort of a list. But really, I doubt it’s that simple.
What I can say is that spending such time alone, trying to grow up in a society that I often struggle to understand, I have realized the importance of family. That’s the biggest thing for me now. Family is everything. For this reason, flying home last night and getting to see the people I love most, is the best thing I could have asked for this holiday season. Hold on to your loved ones tight this Christmas, because I promise you, if you don’t get to see them often you will realize they’re the best thing you’ve got.
Before I go, I would like to give a quick shoutout to Shopmieux, a great online consignment store, where I got this perfect DVF little black dress. I would also like to thank Houda for the photos, taken at the beautiful MUIC campus, which I am surely going to miss.
Dress: DVF via Shopmieux – Bag: Elizabeth & James – Shoes: The Only Son
Watch: TW Steel – Necklace: H&M
Photos by: Houda Azalia
That dress is absolutely GORGEOUS! Thank you for following me on Instagram! Now following you back, and your blog on Bloglovin. If you have any other social media, would love to follow you there!
Terry
http://terrystwocents.tumblr.com
Thank you so much! I honestly haven’t come across many man fashion bloggers, so I was pretty excited to find you. You’ve got great style!
Awww, thanks so much! Yes, us fellas do seem to be a minority, especially wanting to be a stylist, like myself. š
I really like it! Keep up the good work and I’m sure you will do great things. Let me know if you’re ever in Thailand!
Its great to have you home! You won’t be wearing your cute little black dress here though…
Thanks momma! I can wear it with a sweater you knitted š
So happy you are home with your family, I agree family is everyTHANG! happy holidays! xo C
I hope you’re having the best christmas with your husband! Can’t wait to catch up soon. Sending you lots of love! Merry Christmas! xoxo
One of the things i loved about Thailand was that although their society is often confusing (and occasionally backwards) family is at the heart of everything they do. got to admire a country that managed to maintain those values after all of these years!
You’re totally right! It is pretty respectable and they’ve definitely played a role in teaching me that. There are so many great things to learn from living abroad. I would love to hear your thoughts on how you’ve changed from living in Thailand, now that you’re home it’s probably more easy to recognize. Happy New Year! xoxo